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Andrew
Cohen is one of the most successful American Gurus
who came out of sojurning in the East but has
been exposed by Luna Tarlo, his own mother, as
a fraud and charlatan. To read 'The Mother of
God' the book she wrote, click
here to buy from Amazon.co.uk.
'Enlightenment Blues' by
Andre van der Braak is an expose of Cohen's fraud,
written by one of his former closest disciples.
Read a synopsis
here.
"A mother's account of her experience
as a disciple of her son, a well-known American
guru, and of her struggle to free herself from
his control" is the apt subtitle of this intimate,
revealing story by Luna Tarlo. Beyond the story,
it is the author's effort to make sense of the
spiritual seeker's folly, her folly, of absorption
into the enigmatic manipulation of a sociopathic
guru. In her case it is easy to see why she was
attracted to Andrew Cohen in the first place--she
loves her son. When he transformed into an enlightened
guru in India around ten years ago, he no longer
related to her as her son. He became her "god,"
an embodiment of the Absolute Self that all persons
must know and experience to be truly "free." She
struggled to make sense of this, and for some
years capitulated to whatever degree she could
to the guru-chela (disciple or slave) relationship
that Andrew exacted. Tarlo was somewhat overwhelmed
at Andrew's uncanny ability to collect devotees
who "experienced" enlightenment from him, but
she finally broke the spell while living in one
of the group homes (sanghas) in 1989. Her recovery
from that spell has not been an easy journey.
Her story is one that many disenchanted guru devotees
will understand.
Others, who have never succumbed
to the seduction of a godman, will wonder "what
was she thinking" all those years. To those "others"
who read the book, Andrew Cohen will appear as
someone with spoiled brat syndrome. I am reminded
of an incident between another mother and her
adult son who was in the Ramtha group at the time.
During the counseling session the tall, young
man explained to his diminutive, Catholic mother
that he was "God." The little lady stood up with
concern in her expression. In an instant she hit
him with a roundhouse slap across the face, and
in a measured, firm voice, she said, "You are
not God." Tarlo tells us that she had visions
during her discipleship in which she told her
son off and left him. The vision made her feel
better, but she could not easily act on it or
just walk away. She suffered from that condition
cult experts call mind control.
Today, dozens to hundreds of devotees,
some quite wealthy, support Cohen and his enlightened
status. He has established FACE (Friends of Andrew
Cohen Everywhere) centers in many cities around
the world under the Moksha Foundation in Lenox,
Massachussetts. By New Age guru standards, Cohen
has not reached great numbers, but he is one of
the more recent rising stars. His biannual magazine,
What Is Enlightenment?, is a slick production
that features articles by and about some of the
fashionable spiritual teachers. For example, the
Fall/Winter 1997 edition features Ken Wilbur,
Georg Feuerstein, and Deepak Chopra. And, of course,
Andrew Cohen. In his article, "Releasing the Unspeakable
Glory of the Absolute," Cohen talks about his
philosophy like a broken guru record: "The true
Self cares only about itSelf [sic]; ...that power
reveals itself to be a hurricane of destruction
leaving in its wake only perfect peace and unqualified
harmony; ...permanent revolution of body, mind
and soul..." Cohen's teaching includes skillful
means, a euphemism for the guru-can-do-anything
to trick, attract, coerce, embarrass or shock
a devotee who wants enlightenment. To such gurus
enlightenment means entitlement to money, power,
sex and unquestioning submission. The illusion
to be entertained is that the guru as Andrew Cohen,
son of Luna (or name any enlightened one) is not
who the devotee worships; it is the Absolute Self
that has seized Andrew's being that is being worshipped.
Meanwhile, little Andrew enjoys the entitlements
without taking responsibility--it is the big Absolute
that makes the demands.
Cohen's mother found all this "revolution"
to be too much to sustain, despite her persistence
to follow her godman son's challenging commands.
Tarlo experienced Cohen's ruthless verbal put-downs
about her behavior, her emotions and her thoughts
to the extent that she did not know who she was
any longer. It all began in 1985 when Cohen took
his substantial inheritance from his grandmother
and became part of the western, leisure class
tradition of spiritual seekers in India. After
considerable guru-hopping with his Indian girlfriend
and fellow seeker, Alka, Cohen happened upon H.W.L.
Poonja, a then obscure teacher who claimed to
be of the lineage of Ramana Maharshi. Tarlo later
discovered that Ramana Maharshi (1879-1950) left
no lineage. Poonjaji had little to no success
gathering devotees at the time, but he nevertheless
claimed enlightened status and gave it to Cohen,
as if it were a transferrable condition. According
to Tarlo, Cohen had a strained relationship with
Poonja in the end. I heard that Poonja died in
1997. Cohen, then in his early thirties, got whatever
"it" was from Poonja, and he has claimed enlightenment
ever since. His version of enlightenment means
that his "personal history" is gone, or, at least,
his acknowledgment of it. He identifies only with
the "other" or the Absolute.
Tarlo was with him off and on during
this period as she deigned to become one of his
followers. If she had a vulnerability other than
being "God's" mother, it was her personal history
of self-analysis and seeking that gave her a sophisticated
but naive awareness of the spiritual milieu. In
a subtly humorous passage Tarlo recounts how she
did not feel enlightened after both Poonjaji and
Andrew both said she was. Once she had been set
up with this knowledge, her struggle was to make
sense of it, and she had only her son as a guide.
It was a conundrum she could not easily dismiss.
Her break came after she and a few other Cohenites
dared to meet the irascible Indian teacher, U.G.
Krishnamurti (no relation to J. Krishnamurti).
U.G. convinced them that they did not need a teacher.
It was the nudge Tarlo needed to stall her ambivalence
long enough to feel free of her son's control.
She later told her story to exit counselor Steve
Hassan, a former "Moonie," who helped her put
her experience into perspective. She also benefited
from The Guru Papers by Joel Kramer and Diana
Alstadt, a book that clearly exposes the dangers
inherent in guru submission.
Luna Tarlo's book is now the must-read
publication for anyone wanting to understand Andrew
Cohen beyond his group propaganda. Her book is
also a plea to her son to "come home" to the real
person she believes he is. I doubt Cohen has it
in him. Studies show that narcissism and anti-social
personality--Tarlo argues convincingly that Cohen
exhibits these characteristics-- are incurable.
They are not diseases, but character flaws that
the bearer covers with a mask. In this case, the
mask could be one of pseudo-enlightenment. He
would need a healthy conscience to pull that one
off, but by Tarlo's description, what conscience
he has is inadequate. Nor will his cocoon of devotees
permit him to be anything less than their enlightened
godman who tinkers with their awareness. Cohen's
teachings remind me of exactly what Tarlo called
it--"fascism" is the political counterpart. Because
he's enlightened, Cohen the Absolute believes
he has a right to ask total submission from devotees
and then to dictate their reality. Fascist ideas
have some roots in an early twentieth century,
Italian art and political movement called Futurism.
The Futurist poet and leader, F.T. Marinetti,
directly influenced Benito Mussolini as well as
many proto-Nazis in two ways: the elite among
us "know" the pure spirit world, and to bring
that pure world into mundane life, even war could
serve as a purifying agent. Cohen's skillful means
is his technique to create "wars" within his devotees
to purify them. Or, as Luna Tarlo tells us, to
destroy them by destroying their personal history.
Not that there is a connection, but Tarlo points
out that Andrew Cohen likes to smoke cigarettes
and drink Italian coffee.
The Futurist Manifesto of 1909 declared
"...a new beauty...a roaring motorcar which runs
like a machine-gun, is more beautiful than the
Winged Victory of Samothrace...We wish to glorify
war..." (Murray, Peter and Linda. 1968. A Dictionary
of Art and Artists. Penguin Reference Books) 2Enlightenment
gurus who use "skillful means" to "liberate" their
devotees from personal history, karma or psychological
baggage will assert that they mean no harm, but
the fast track to moksha (soul liberation) requires
total submission and sacrifice to a living master
if one is to succeed in one lifetime. As to the
"death" of the self, even St. Paul of Christianity
wrote: I live now, not I, but Christ lives in
me (Galatians 2:20) . In much of guru submission,
the Absolute is a parallel to the Christ of Paul,
though the proponents of either view might dispute
this assertion.
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