Islam and Homosexuality
1. What are the rights of homosexuals in the Muslim
world? specially in Pakistan ?
2. According to the way of Islam what are the punishments of homosexuality.
3. Could you please send me the brief about homosexuality in the light
of Islam, describing the rights of homosexuals.
Dear Brother, Assalamo Alaikum.
Homosexuality is unlawful in Islam. It is neither accepted by the state
nor by the Islamic Society.
Quran clearly states that it is unjust, un-natural, transgression,
ignorant,criminal and corrupt.
The people living in the time of prophet LOT (Nephew Of
Abraham) near the Dead Sea were involved in this Act and Allah punished
them severely and the whole nation was destroyed.
Muslim Jurists agree that, if proven of guilt, both of
them should be killed. However jurists differ on the methadology of
capital Punishment.
Infact it is a great injustice with women. You must know
that in Islam pre-marital hetrosexuality (Dating) is also unlawful.
We advise you to go through the following verses of the
Quran:
Verses:
VI --- 86 ; VII -- 80-84 ; XI -- 77-83 ; XV --57-77 ; XXI--74-75
; XXVI--160-175 ; XXVII--54-58 : XXIX--26-35 ; XXXVII--133-138 ; LI--31-37
; LIV--33-39 ; XI--81 ; XV--60 ; LXVI--10
In the present time, we are witnessing the wrath of God
on these homosexuals in the form of AIDS, which is affecting innocents
also.
Sincerely,
Jamaat-e-Islami Pakistan.
Question:
Hi there,
my name is S. Warsi and I am a student journalist at Ryerson University
in Toronto. I am writing a story on Islam and homosexuality. From what
I've already read on your site, it is clear that Islam condemns it.
I would like to ask some further questions:
1) There
are "gay Muslims" out there that are justifiying their homosexual behaviour.
They argue that Allah embraces all people no matter what their sexual
orientation. What do you have to say about that?
2) Is a person really Muslim if they are gay or lesbian?
3) Some people argue that Islam is an evolving religion which should
adapt to modern traits. What do you make of that?
Thank
you for your time and I hope to hear from you soon,
Salaam,
Sarah
Warsi
Answer:
Thank
you for contacting JI dear Sarah Warsi! WaAlaikum Assalam,
1) If
some Muslim is indulged in this crime that is highly wicked in the sight
of Islam, and still attempts to justify his/her behaviour, it amounts
only to ridiculing Islam and its code of sexual conduct. Such person
should at least feel ashamed and admit so rather than being proud of
being gay or lesbian.
2) I am no judge to declare whether a gay/lesbian still remains a true
Muslim or not. In principle, a person negates faith when he/she renounces
what brings him/her within its folds. What I insist is that such people
must repent and cure themselves. It is absurd to coin and use the term
“Muslim gay” or “gay Muslim”. A true Muslim submits to the commands
of God, who has strongly condemned and prohibited this behaviour.
3) Islam is “evolving” in the sense that it provides most modern and
scientific answer to any issue that comes forth in any age or society.
However, it rejects the type of evolution that is injurious to human
development and growth. Hence, it will never accept manners like homosexuality,
lesbianism or the like because all such acts are un-natural and harmful
for the human race.
Please
follow my detailed arguments about homosexuality on this website, and
let me know what was that which could not appeal commonsense or scientific
inquiry.
M. Haq
Question:
Dear
Sir
Assalam u Alaikum. I hope you are well and happy. I’m a muslim - 15
years old and gay. I want to be normal but no matter what I try, nothing
works. I also act like a girl even though I try not to and I now discovered
that I am attracted to men.
Could you please help me as my parents are divorced. I’ve spent all
my life with my mum and she has great hope for me. If I tell her I’m
gay, it will hurt her and I don’t want that.
Could you please tell me a way of becoming a man and becoming normal?
I really need your help. May Allah bless you in this world and in the
hereafter.
Thank you
Khuda-hafiz
Answer:
WaAlaikum
Assalam dear .....!
I feel
sympathy with you that as a young lad, you were subjected to a difficult
situation. I understand your problem and you are not the only one to
have faced this dilemma.
So, let us begin here. Do you really think this practice is un-natural,
wrong and therefore, be avoided? Tell me if you agree and also inform
me what you can do for that at your end. I will be ever-available (God
Willing) for any clarification that you (or any of your gay friend)
need.
The way you have addressed me, is fully indicative that you are a brave
man and potentially capable of changing not only yourself, but many
more around you. And let me assure you that you will then see the real
happiness and satisfaction of life, yet unknown to you. Good luck.
However first let me correct two absolutely wrong assumptions in your
question:
(1) You may think that you are born as gay, but this is not true. I
am myself a scientist (geneticist) and I have never had any real proof
what the so-called "top scientists" say. They are either confused, or
just misleading.
(2) Do you know that it is "Haram" to be a gay? Can you really believe
that God, the most Merciful and Kind, would ever declare something haram
what a person can not possibly follow? Sheer nonsense. Why would God
make such unjust command?
Listen, no extra-marital sex is permitted in Islam. Homosexuality is
particularly considered in Islam as an utterly odious and heinous crime.
The whole tribe of the prophet Loot (A.S.), which was engaged in this
crime, was destroyed by Allah through an exemplary punishment, whose
ominous signs are still visible in the south of the Dead See. Qur'an
narrated the story more than once. In the Islamic jurisprudence the
punishment of the homosexuals (both persons) is harsher than the fornicator.
All the religions including Judaism and Christianity could neither permit
nor tolerate a crime that God Himself described as having no parallel
in the human history and being the most heinous in nature.
The ever-increasing higher incidence (37% American males and 13% females
around 1953), does not prove at all that it is genetic beyond doubt.
Other than genetic aberration (or much more than) it seems the result
of (among other possible factors):
a. Circumstances, emanating from person-to-society interaction;
b. Disturbed periods in childhood (and adolescence) development; and
c. Disorders in intra-family relations.
Fact of the matter is that the liberal Western society has accepted
sex, per se', as an end and purpose itself, which it is not. Sex is
for reproduction. The charm in it whatsoever is a temporary reward for
that "duty". Once you reject this actual purpose, you cannot stop anybody
from any willful mode of sex, and that leads to anarchy rather than
responsible human behaviour. Are you not thus working towards the extinction
of human race? And if so, do they have the right to benefit from what
the "families" have developed and passed on for us?
There are many a "feeling", which are only wrong, and must be suppressed.
If every person is allowed to do or get what he/she "feels", will only
result in anarchy. An individual's rights and aspirations are respected
as long as they do not clash with other's. That needs no argument. And,
we have been continuously making sound reasoning to prove that homosexuality,
like similar other wrongs, is against nature and destructive for human
species, and its social and sociological norms.
So, the solution is to stop. Remember please, if wrongs are not voluntarily
corrected by the individual or the society, then Nature intervenes.
That is what we have started witnessing.
Finally, a sick person is not hated, rather taken special care of. More
research, more understanding and more support is required to bring back
these somewhat lost men. But they will have first to admit that something
had gone wrong, and they are now ready to cooperate and take up the
mainstream behaviour.
Having trodden a path for quite some time, it becomes really difficult
to step back, but never impossible. The way you have explained your
condition is a very healthy sign, nevertheless. U agree it is bad and
it is unnatural, and it warrants correction. So, let us try. What seems
disturbing you is your frustration that there is no easy solution, probably
none at all. But this is not correct. You just look around and list
factors that helped you becoming gay. Try avoid them one by one. Seek
a better company, good literature, healthy recreation and avoid filthy
audio-visuals or cyber games, etc.
And, would u mind see a good psycho-physician as well. It’ll take some
time, but hopefully you will be "home" one day. We pray for you and
all those who have become the slaves of their habits and wish to get
rid of.
One thing highly encouraging in your case is that you fully realize
and understand your problem. More than this, you are seeking the help
of Allah and you believe He is helping you. These two plus points indicate
that you have solved over 90% of your problem.
What to do for the rest? Let us suggest a few steps:
(i) Continue seeking the help of Allah - read the Qur'an, offer salaat,
(ii) Try rather overcome your problem yourself like a perfect gentleman.
Don't let any other boy come closer to you.
(iii) It will be advisable to consult some good psycho-analyst. That
usually works.
We hope and pray that you succeed in leading a normal life. Once you
enter the new phase, just forget about the past and please do not defend
homosexuals and lesbians as a class and as if they are totally innocent.
Just forget that and listen to what we say as brothers. May Allah help
you. Ameen!
Wassalam,
M. Ha